So today on GidiNoize we are talking about relationships and we’ll be teaching women how to behave when in a relationship u know something like 2 can play that game but GidiStyle so enjoy so heres the GidiGuide.
1. Understand that men are turned on by the women who play it coy. Playing it coy makes the guy realize that you’re not going to give it up easily, and it will take some work to win you over. Some women may believe that giving a guy what he wants immediately will put them in his good graces. The opposite is actually true!
Yh i agree!We girls shouldnt give it all out on d first date and all ,dont pick up all his calls and when you do pick some up dont pick them all too quick,dont always reply when he texts and when you do let him wait a bit..lol.
I know u ppl are like ahahn GidiNoize thats too much but seriously you have to front a bit but please oh!! dont go and front too much.Was reading a blog just the other day and apparently this babe was fronting and she liked the dude oh thats how the guy vexed and boned her side and you should know the rest..lol…so please FRONT but not too much!
I know its quite hard;you like him,he likes you but due to some RULES you cant show your feelings and all—>Yes its hard but it has to be done so you ae not taken for granted.So yes we girls need to PLAY IT COY…lmao
2. Realize that he wants be the “man.” Games are often about boosting a man’s ego. If a guy waits to call you, he feels he is keeping you at his mercy. If you return the call immediately or act too eager, you are confirming that he is the man and validating his ego. If a guy takes time to call you, take time to return his call.
Like I said before WE GASTA FRONT!!!!!!! lol…refer to my point above!
3 Understand that it’s the thrill of the hunt. Notice that it’s not about what he can catch. Rather, it’s about what he can hunt. In other words, instant gratification is not as satisfying as something that takes some work. If he is only about the hunt, it will be obvious, and you can decide whether or not he’s worth your time.
Once again like I said before dont give it all up–>He says ‘I like you‘—>say ‘Oh really‘..lol—>Dont say ‘I like you too’ or whatever so quickly.Play some mind games.TBH(To be honest) mind games are fun and uhm–> I love them,you can call me the black Blair Waldorf..lol.Anyways playing mind games makes the hunt interesting and not just boring like–>I like you—>you like me—>lets get married(what a bore!)..lol.So yh the thrill of the hunt is quite important.
4. Realize the bottom line is validation. You may wonder why it is that men play games. A huge part of it is that they want validation. Men often get validation through the games that they play. Women tend to make the mistake of trying harder when a guy is playing games. As a result, men get validation through their little games and continue to play them with other women.
Basically guys do some things just to see your reaction and your reaction determines their next line of action.I feel all this points are interlinked.Like i said before make the hunt interesting.I’ll give and example,I know someone who changed her facebook status to ‘in a relationship’ just to mess with some guy’smind—>Trust me,girls too are ‘Game Players’..lol…Anyways basically if tables were turned and I was the guy ain that situation,you know what I’ll do—>NOTHING..I’ll just act normal and not give that attention that he/she is seeking for.
5. Recognize that games are kept to a minimum when a guy truly likes a girl. This simple little fact is crucial when it comes to weeding out the guys who are looking for a relationship and the guys who are looking for other things. If a guy is really into a girl, he won’t want to play games because he won’t want to risk losing a good thing. If he persists in playing games, it’s either about finding a hookup or validating his ego.
Yes the ultimate point, games are fun but if a guy really likes u,he wont play too many games before he finally asks you the big question WILL YOU BE MY GIRLFRIEND or WILL YOU MARRY ME.Many times girls know the truth but they keep avoiding it—>if that dude is playing with your mind too much,just know that he is using you to CATCH CRUISE and uhm—>HE DOESNT LIKE YOU.